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Solo Traveling
Posted By Jay On November 8, 2010 @ 10:00 am In Featured Articles,Travel Advice | No Comments
Sometimes when you wanna go somewhere, you just want to go now!!! It can be a real bummer to conjure up this magnificent trip to ‘wherever’ and have the entire plan dashed because the person(s) you want to go with can’t. The reasons run the gamut; they have to work, don’t have the money, they’re lazy and/or lame or just aren’t interested in the trip you’ve planned (what do people have against sharks?????). At this point you are left with two options – adjust your schedule/destination or continue with your planning and go by yourself. As I’ve become very comfortable going with option 2, I’d like to share my experiences, as well as a few pros and cons.
The first part of solo travel is actually being solo – or perhaps more accurately not married. Traveling for work can strain even the best relationship, but consistently traveling for vacation without your spouse I would imagine would cause some issues. Being single in the first place gives you ‘options’. I’m frequently asked by folks at work; “how do you have the money to travel all over the world” or “Dude, I need to get on your compensation package”, etc. Well, the simple fact is I don’t have the two biggest expenses most of my co-workers have – a spouse and kids. I’m certainly not suggesting I’m better off than they are, it’s just that I can devote all of my discretionary income to one person – me. The takeaway here is if this is your situation, take advantage of it while you can.
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Challenging Aspects
From my perspective, the advantages of solo travel outweigh the challenges. Going solo certainly isn’t the best method for every trip; trips that are generally considered romantic in nature (Paris) or those geared towards children (Disney) are best left for couples and/or families. For most other adventures, traveling by myself meant I could go wherever, whenever and with whomever I wanted. That may sound a bit selfish, but the truth is it is quite liberating.
Here are a few of my solo travel experiences from the last year and my thoughts during those trips.
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Belgium – Brussels My first solo trip. All of the concerns I’d held prior to the trip vanished almost immediately. I was never lonely and there must be something about a guy with a video camera that sparks the craziest conversations. |
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Las Vegas, NV Of all of the places in the US that are friendly to solo travelers, I’d think Vegas is somewhere near the top of the list. With tons of day and nighttime activities, I was never bored in Vegas. |
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Thailand – Bangkok, Phuket Due to the rioting in Bangkok and the amount of walking I did in Phuket, it was probably a good idea I was by myself. Though I have to admit – the tiger temple tour and cooking classes were probably best experienced with someone else. |
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Costa Rica – Liberia, Arenal and San Jose Traveling with someone wouldn’t have made the adventure any better/worse; my Liquid Image Scuba Mask and my Drift x170 head camera ensured I captured every zip-line, white water rafting and horseback adventure. Still, I was almost a victim of robbery by two hot-chicks. |
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South Africa: Johannesburg, Kruger National Park & Cape Town The only bad thing was the unusually cold night in a tree house in the middle of Kruger National park (could have really used a belly warmer). The Table Mountain repelling, Shark Dive and innocent flirting with hotel front desk staff were right out of the solo traveler’s playbook. |
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Panama – Panama City Traveling solo really helped with booking tours at the last minute. Both my Atlantic Ocean scuba diving excursion and tour of Old Panama were sold out, but both operators made space for one more person. |
I’ve met some interesting people traveling solo – both in person and virtually; that I would not have met if I were traveling with someone. A few travel bloggers I’ve encountered who also do a good deal of solo travel include Gray from Solo Friendly, the Fly-Brother Ernest and Lillie from Around the World L. The fact is there are tons of solo travelers at every destination who are looking to connect with like minded travelers like you.
Here are some travel tips which are unique to solo travelers (or are of greater importance);
Don’t let the fact you don’t have a partner influence where you want to go – properly prepare and go enjoy yourself! As long as you follow the safety tips unique to solo travelers, you should be fine. Not waiting on someone else to go with you, doing whatever and whenever you want and the decreased travel costs are just a few of the benefits of going at it alone. I’m not suggesting traveling by yourself is any better or worse than with someone else – it’s just different; call it liberating!!
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